HAPPINESS !! 😊

Hello everyone !! Welcome back to 15's fantasy !! Thank you so much for coming back !!

Today we are going to have a discussion on the topic, Happiness. 

I would like to begin by asking you all a question, what is Happiness? Some of you might tell that happiness is the feeling of pleasure and some of you might tell that happiness is the state of well-being. I searched for the meaning of the word happiness and got a lot of answers. There were two answers that caught my eye. The first one was " Happiness is a feeling of pleasure and contentment and the second one was " Happiness is the feeling that you have when life is fair and good to you and you can't help it but smile". I don't agree that life should always be fair and good to you in order to be happy. I would like to explain this with an example.

I have been fortunate to have visited a lot of old age homes and orphanages, going there and spending time with them gives me a lot of happiness. My grandmother's brother is a priest and is the administrator of an old age home at Palakkad. I go there often and the person whom I love spending time with is a grandfather aged 75-80. He was an English professor by profession and he always tells me how happening his life was back then. He used to go to a lot of places and give motivational talks and guidance classes. He also told me how his children found him a burden and put him in the old age home. I always notice his face when he talks about his children, it is a very sad thing to see but suddenly he has that big smile back again. He then  tells me how jovial his caretaker and housemates are. 

Life was not always fair and good to him but he has his own reason to remain happy. He is the one who taught me one of the greatest lessons that I'm never going to forget. That is, happiness is always self made. You can never depend on a person for your happiness.Be it your family or friends, no body can make you happy. You can only be happy when you decide to. Especially during this uncertain times, all that we can do is stay happy and positive.

I would like to conclude by quoting Gabriel Garcia, " no medicine cures what happiness cannot "

Hope you all enjoyed reading this !! Stay happy and safe !!

Until we meet again next Thursday ...Byeeeee !!!! 💗


Comments

  1. KichaMay 4, 2021 at 8:45 AM

    Nice message!!🥲

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  2. 😹Anonymous 😹May 4, 2021 at 8:45 AM

    We all have misconceptions about happiness it's natural. This blog has brought a clarity to it. love the blog more power to the creator waiting for next Thursday 💛🧡💚💙❤️💜

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  3. 😹Anonymous 😹May 4, 2021 at 8:45 AM

    We all have misconceptions about happiness it's natural. This blog has brought a clarity to it. love the blog more power to the creator waiting for next Thursday 💛🧡💚💙❤️💜

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  4. DarkMay 5, 2021 at 12:14 AM

    This is very true as many people believe that happiness just comes naturally but people like that are the ones who fall into sadness.This is a beautiful msg will be waiting for the next blog.

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  5. KichaMay 5, 2021 at 3:31 AM

    U only know what’s true happiness or true love when u loose what u love or what makes u happy…. But in life…. U have to overcome that sadness…. U can’t always have happiness… that’s life

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