SELF CONFIDENCE || TIPS TO BUILD SELF CONFIDENCE

 Hey guys!! 👀

Welcome or welcome back to 15's fantasy!

I hate to say this again but I know that it's been a while since I posted 😊 I was very very busy [ actually yes ] with Onam and a family function but anyways, I'm back! 

Thank you so much for the love. 

Today, I am going to share with you all some things related to the topic- SELF CONFIDENCE.

This is something all of us require in our life!

Soo, let's begin!

First...as usual let us begin with the definition.

WHAT IS SELF CONFIDENCE?

When I searched for the definition, it said that self confidence is  a feeling of trust in one's abilities, qualities, and judgement. 

It basically means believing in yourself and feeling WOW about yourself! Feeling wow about yourself doesn't mean you have to be perfect. It only means that you accept and love the way you are! 

WHY IS SELF CONFIDENCE IMPORTANT?

If you are not confident about yourself, you'll be insecure about every single thing!

It might be about your body, height, ability, opinions etc. If you are not confident you will start to doubt everything you do. You will feel that you are not good enough. You will start setting boundaries for yourself. You will start to limit yourself. 

It will end up in you being somebody else's puppet. You will have no opinion of your own. All this will affect your life and personality. So It is very very very very important to feel confident and to love yourself!

SELF LOVE

I'd say that self love is the first thing that you need to achieve for becoming confident. Only if you love yourself can you believe in yourself! I'll do another post on self love asapp!

TIPS TO BUILD YOUR CONFIDENCE

Some tips that I would suggest are : 

= Keeping a journal

Writing a journal can help you analyse yourself. It will help you to track your mood, behaviour etc and will help you to build yourself up! 

= Affirmations 

Affirmations will definitely help you to be more confident and to love yourself. If you haven't read my post on the importance of affirmations, read it now!! 👇👇

https://15sfantasy.blogspot.com/2021/07/importance-of-affirmations.html

= Make a list of your strengths 

Knowing your strengths will help you to feel better about yourself. Always make sure that you try and find out your strengths and use them to the fullest! 

= Know what makes you happy

Find out what will make you happy. It can be listening to music, dancing, drawing, painting, talking with friends and family etc. After you know this, make sure to spend some time for the same! 

= Maintain relationships with people who gift good vibes

Always surround yourself with people who helps you become better and gifts good vibes. Do not entertain relationships that gifts negativity and makes you feel bad about yourself. 

= Keep some time for yourself 

It is very important to spend time with yourself. Alone time will help you feel better, become a better person, identify your shortcomings, analyse yourself etc 

= Spend time with family 

Make sure that you find some time to talk and spend time with your loved ones. This will help you stay happy! 

ALWAYS, ALWAYS REMEMBER TO BE YOUR OWN BOSS 🙌

That is it for this week! Thank you so much for reading! Thank you so much for asking me about posting late! So grateful for the love and support!

Stay happy and safe!

Until we meet again next Friday.....Byeeeeeeee!! ❤